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Suspecting that most therapists are only useful inasmuch as they have good intuitive reads on people and (importantly) LIKE you w/o too much sentimentality. There are lots of other approaches to therapy, and perhaps some of them are also good, but very many are harmful/useless.
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Lots of problems brought into therapy basically boil down to having poor insight on self/acceptance of self, which can be improved by recognition & acceptance. Therapist going "you seem to be about X (and that's probably fine)" clears a lot of personal noise from the signal.
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