whatβs Maybeβs problem?
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I am just gonna have to turn this into a self-judgement thread if yβall are so in the dark about my innumerable deep, damning character flaws π€‘
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thatβs totally fair, there is a sort of suspension of disbelief in playing with the problem framing for me too
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If I was to speculate, I'd say you may actually be too keen to find fault in yourself.
But I have this problem, too, so it may just be projection on some level for me to say this.
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I notice I am way more comfortable with βyour problem is assuming you always have a problemβ than I am with βyou do not have a problemβ so projection or not, the shoe fits lol
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It's the sort of disposition that can create problems from thin air, unfortunately.
Most of us seem to have some level of this conditioning, but it can be way worse for some of us.
E.g. I'm constantly amazed to learn there are things about me that are, y'know, good. Seems dumb.