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I have gazed into the abyss, and it gazed the fuck back right into my soul
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A rare case of it probably not being terrible to make you click, but terrible just because the author is terrible.
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it just stunned me, because when someone is living that unhealthily they're at least vaguely aware it's unhealthy
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Insight problems are the number one external signifier of personality disorders.
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Is it because they think they will die if they engage in self reflection?
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It varies, but most straightforward answer seems to be that people set their own baseline.
What I experience = normal, universal experience
Combine with comorbid issues like self-loathing and other patologies, and, well...
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Well I have been trying to figure out people with personality disorders for years. It seems like to manipulate other people into believing a false reality you need some concept of objective reality. Wouldn't you?
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No. There is no objective reality present in your subjective reality, and intersubjectivity is exceedingly malleable.
Dominating the intersubjective exchange & shared reality is entirely possible even without an understanding of your OWN subjectivity.
One thing I hit upon is that to me Narcissists kind of approach people like a candy machine. To get the candy you need to put in quarters, to get what you want from people they figure out what they have to give them.
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