Whenever I talk about how I'd treat my children if I have any, I reliably get responses along the lines of "ha, when you have kids you'll change your mind."
That's entirely possible, fair. But for context, I also said that I was going to marry my first girlfriend, and I did it
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'Haha loser ofc your experience will be convergent with mine ha you think choices exist get real.'
It *can* be kinda laughable when people go on and on about all the contingent outcomes they 'will' have, but just their preferences...?
I don't think 'I intend to make distinctive parenting choices' is any kind of bold claim.
Parenting outcomes, OTOH, are often pretty random.
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