So, lost most things in life that *really* mattered to me over the course of this year.
I recommend it.
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Been there. I lost most of my access to my family, home, and even food in 2007.
I don't recommend it myself.
But certainly being attentive to how our greatest losses affect us, and using that to redirect our goals in life, to honor the losses, is something I highly recommend.
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I wouldn't have recommended it if not for what it did for me.
Nondoership is a hell of an upgrade from feeling personally involved in everything. Esp. in the start of a divorce.
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But I was ofc being a bit facetious. I did a lot of prep work before this was even a possible (or at least plausible) outcome.
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There isn't any push or pull in the latter.
I'm consciously avoidant at the moment, though. Not so much because I have to be as because it seems to help the body relax.
I think I/it has earned some rest.
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Anyway, I'll go do some meditation now. Want to settle into this habit of attention while it's fresh.
May help w/integration later, and permeation so that it can coexist with embodied awareness.