Extremely impressed by the rhetorical technique of entering my mentions to attack my prioritization of time, then blocking me when told you're free to waste time grinding axes with me.
I mean, if you accomplish nothing except pissing yourself off, that's a win, right?
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Not to say I always get things right. I'm as much of an idiot as anyone on most topics, TYVM.
But gaslighting me as a way to advance your argument does the opposite, m8.
And needing to block someone after coming after them is not a sign you've done well by yourself, either.
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When people tell you how and where to spend your energy, unprompted, without argument, what they are signalling is a lack of respect.
You are here for yourself, not anyone else. The moral and ethical dimensions of your choices are your responsibility, but also your prerogative.
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I have no time or patience for anyone who wants to tell me how to live without earning a right to an opinion.
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Two-step process to having your criticisms heard:
1) Approach with respect, not condescension.
2) Actually make a coherent point, not just for your own benefit.
Enormously challenging, innit?
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Of course, if you want to snark around and act like an asshole, more power to you!
But the pretense that this is anything else than that? You can lie to yourself if you like, but the behaviour will remain just as fatuous and obvious.
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One of the best things meditation can do for you is help you recognize incoherent behaviour in yourself and others. So use that.