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Well, to be perhaps excessively serious, the Aro gTér is almost entirely traditional in its content. The hair vows go back many centuries at minimum; mustache vows aren’t a thing. That said, he does encourage “flamboyant facial topiary” on male students.
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So Eternalicious is the manual. The bottom line is people's lives change very fast, mostly for the better, then their world model breaks. Usually because of all the synchronicity. The real derailer is unconscious fear of God and pleasure: eve made to bear in pain etc. software.
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yeah all the Pure Land stuff is experienced as "but hell is real too and if you don't obey God, you'll go there." all states are experienced as being contingent on an external authority figure that will command and menace. the guru is seen through that lens/karma seen as sin etc
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you'd have to sand off the entire fabric right down to early childhood - way way way deeper than stuff like sexual imprinting - to get good, bad, fear of hell, punishing god, virgin/whore and fear of being nailed to a cross if you get enlightened out as well. nightmare level.
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