For most people, it really isn't a choice (that they are aware they are making)!
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Pretty sure most people I've ever met were either in (the illusion of) stable identification, or disillusioned and frightened by it!
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That it isn't the only available type of frame is pretty crucial, but most people never fully realize!
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There are also other problems.
Lack of core identity, without the tools to handle it, tends to land people in borderline/narcissism territory. It is emotionally destabilising.
"The tools to handle it" tend to superempower people and make them deeply, profoundly dangerous.
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Yeah, the decompensation aspect of narcissism, specifically. The struggle to maintain the self-defense mesh the disorder really is.
NPD sufferers are very sad, frightened people. A lot of that traces back to lacking mature ways of coping with an absence of a stable self-image.
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