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A more advanced version of this practice: Pick a song with a strong central element. A bass line, for example. Focus on this, exclusively. Clench on to it. Don't let go. During any sort of interlude, say a solo or a break, let go - and now, take in every part of the music.
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Cinder
@Triquetrea
There are many ways to meditate with music, but one of my favorites is so simple that basically anyone could do it. At a starter level, pick a song you like - preferably one you really like - and just listen to it. Don't let your attention drift away. Really listen to the song.
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The key is to let the song dictate your timing. Decide when to focus and when to let go, and practice accordingly. If you do this well, and have practiced a bit, you should enter a low-grade flow state. Everything becomes very... smooth, light, effortless.
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Cinder
@Triquetrea
You can expand further: introduce a kinetic element - dance, hum, bounce the rhythm on a yoga ball. And/or you can refine it: Instead of just clenching attention, try to exclude all other impressions. Hear just that part. Instead of opening to the song, open to everything.
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Cinder
@Triquetrea
If you turn the dial fast enough from a sharp and deep focus to a vast and spacious awareness, you sometimes lose your sense of focus AND awareness altogether. Instead of a narrow or broad projection of awareness to objects (sensations) from a subject ("you"), you disappear.
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Cinder
@Triquetrea
I don't mean this in some mystical sense - just that the (sort of) persistent feeling of being a "you", interacting with an environment, is gone. You can't separate anything from anything else. It all becomes one big field of stuff. Your breath. The sky. That chair. Everything
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Cinder
@Triquetrea
This may sound disorienting and maybe not even desirable - and it can cause quite a bit of nausea! But it turns out feeling everything in reference to "you" is actually pretty stifling.
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Cinder
@Triquetrea
Have you ever spent time around someone who is probably a clinical narcissist? A Donald Trump type? You know that way they suck all the air out of the room, and everything has to gravitate around them ALL THE TIME?
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Cinder
@Triquetrea
Seeing everything in reference to a sense of self is kind of like that. "Oh, stomach ache. What does this say about me? Am I stressed? Shit, it's probably about that thing Susan said. I wonder if-" Every fucking thing becomes all "me, me, me!"
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Cinder
@Triquetrea
If this goes, a sensation becomes just a sensation. A call to action or investigation, maybe, but seldom an exercise in self-torturous thought olympics
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Cinder
@Triquetrea
Anyway, enough proselytizing. If you do this just for a general sense of well-being and increased awareness/improves concentration, that's fine. But if so, I'd recommend passing on the more hardcore exercises. It can become quite a trip.
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