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This is why I questioned @Failed_Buddhist with "words, words, words"! One of the clearest shifts I've had is to lose interest in talking about practice. It sometimes sticks as a habit, but it feels very not rewarding. "What is your experience like?" is the only question left.
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If someone describes any sensory underpinnings e.g. of an awakening to me, I instantly know if I am familiar with it. Jargon is both unhelpful - because it's used in different-but-similar ways - and disguises experience and the lack thereof alike.
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language is sometimes helpful for practice, even for relatively experienced practitioners, because it should guide you to experiences you haven't had. And experiences are a bit of a trap: the pursuit of states can be a problem.
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I'm not talking about the pursuit of states, and I don't think we're talking about the same point in a broader context either. But that's my bad with the way I formulated it. I'm saying I find long, jargon-filled philosophical discussions to be less than helpful, mostly.
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If you do stick mostly to one method or discipline, so that it comes to dominate your thinking around certain terms, I think you can do more talk. For me, I've spent too much time dipping my feet in other people's lakes to do that. My brain is a brambled thicket of associations.
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If anything, I've now been retreating, drawing boundaries around my practice, hemming it in - so that I can talk about it more in the future. But the sort of discussion we get into on Twitter, where people are coming from 5 different lineages and methods, is flawed.
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I found parts of it interesting and useful, which is why I engaged. Mostly because seeing what other people say helps me clarify what I think. The idea is not so much that you can't learn from it, as that the discussion itself will always be in some sense antagonistic.
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I don't really agree. The base of my practice is phenomenological, and relies on self-inquiry and perspective taking. Taking on different lenses and seeing how they feel experientially is important to me. Very much in line with Rob Burbea's approach
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So you're describing one model of practice to me now, and in that model of practice this is a fruitful pursuit. Great! What if I want to talk to spirits to do what I want to do? (Disregarding the ontological status of spirits, it's certainly a practice you can pursue.)
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