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Yeah. There's a whole class of advanced statements that are true at certain levels and really harmful to anyone not very advanced. "If you meet the Buddha on the road, kill him." "Do as thou will is the whole of the law." "There is nothing you can do."
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Absolutely. At the same time, I went through many years of confusion over seemingly contradictory ideas, and yet I emerged stronger for it I think. The key, as always, is practice practice practice. Get to know your experiential reality before taking any claim too seriously.
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This is why I questioned @Failed_Buddhist with "words, words, words"! One of the clearest shifts I've had is to lose interest in talking about practice. It sometimes sticks as a habit, but it feels very not rewarding. "What is your experience like?" is the only question left.
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If someone describes any sensory underpinnings e.g. of an awakening to me, I instantly know if I am familiar with it. Jargon is both unhelpful - because it's used in different-but-similar ways - and disguises experience and the lack thereof alike.
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language is sometimes helpful for practice, even for relatively experienced practitioners, because it should guide you to experiences you haven't had. And experiences are a bit of a trap: the pursuit of states can be a problem.
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If you do stick mostly to one method or discipline, so that it comes to dominate your thinking around certain terms, I think you can do more talk. For me, I've spent too much time dipping my feet in other people's lakes to do that. My brain is a brambled thicket of associations.
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If anything, I've now been retreating, drawing boundaries around my practice, hemming it in - so that I can talk about it more in the future. But the sort of discussion we get into on Twitter, where people are coming from 5 different lineages and methods, is flawed.
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