Anti-narcissism is almost always a subset of narcissism. This ain't far apart.
I subtweeted it a bit (look for Kanye on my timeline, inconvenient to link on my phone)
Generally, everyone you know is a bit narcissistic. But one aapect of real NPD is grandiose exaggeration of other people's supposed grandiosity.
Self-realism and judgementality have trouble coexisting.