OK so:
1. Create fewer causes for grievance
2. Create public forum for processing grievance, once created
What about on the private or individual level for already existing grievance?
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if there is no external or social process in place for a person to safely share the burden of the grievance than i'm not sure what other possibility there is than accepting it and letting it go so that it doesn't eat away at you
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Nah, man. I live in a country that works that way. It doesn't work.
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I think the only reason it doesn't work better in Norway in every single modality is that Norwegians are excessively conflict-averse and thus enable abuse.
That said, people here just proceed to *openly* enable it for all sorts of reasons, instead of trying to hide/ignore it.
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Yeah, I've found it very difficult to make friends from the US that were my own age for similar reasons - though I understand this varies a lot by state and class.
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That is very much so on purpose, I assure you.
My interactions with others have been... unpleasant.
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I like to say that they remind me a lot of Poles. It's not meant to be a flattering comparison.
Not that I'm all that keen on Norwegians, either. At some point, it's just post-monkeys being post-monkeys...
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Heh, the Poles have definitely endured worse.
First the country was utterly wrecked by the Nazis, left as a bargaining chip by the allies to avoid prolonging the war, maintained in its ravaged state by the Communists (with all the psyops that implies).
THEN neoliberalism.
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