No shit. I used to have major issues with social skills.
That's made a 180 degree turn.
Still have issues with motivation and persistence, in many contexts. Seems to be weirdly connected with my anger issues (persistence is often bred by annoyance, annoyance feeds anger...)
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if you use anger as a primary energy source and stop being angry, it can lead to issues. (This is, in fact, one of my major issues right now.)
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Yeah, but in my case I think it's rather the instinctive avoidance of anger.
I get annoyed -> this should prompt a commitment or action of some kind -> my self-reg shortcuts the potential anger trigger and I bum around instead.
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Oh yes. In fact I've practiced two already - or well, one combat sport (Judo) and one revivification (medieval martial arts, i.e. swords).
Hard to find a good group around here, though. Harder still to find one where English is useful.
One of many local quality of life issues.
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Judo, I was too young to say.
Swords, definitely. Getting to whack someone with a longsword is a nice way to satisfy some frustration. It also makes your arms fucking strong.
I've found there are several outdoors training areas around here, so I plan to try some calisthenics.
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In fact, assuming it isn't pure esoterism, bad translations or esoterism (unlikely that it's *only* that), the longsword manuals from the 14th/15th century seem to suggest people were far stronger.
Some of those techniques require an absurd amount of strength to pull off well.
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they probably were. Just needed it more, used it every day. The late 19th century strongmen were crazy strong. My favourite is one strong man's mum: she would pick up cows and hold them overhead to move them around. Attested, but WTF.
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I only met her a couple of times before she died. Barely reached my chest.
I am NOT tall, btw. (Not short either, but...)