For all its flaws, Twitter is still the only social media platform to have had any significant real life utility for me (beyond as a glorified scheduler or chat platform, AKA Things We Have Phones For, FFS)
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I've had maybe a dozen cases of getting into arguments with people, from which the repercussions were at worst that I had to block someone.
I don't really understand the Hellsite stuff, at all. It smells a lot like people are inserting drama themselves.