Trad Manhood

I struggle with this issue myself. I've walked from several near-relationships recently on the advice of trusted older, happily married, advisors. In the past, I'd have pushed ahead and "made" something of situations that involved "tests." It's hard, but now I walk to peace

Predators have a sixth sense for pain, and with each test you supply, he'll draw you closer. How to break a cycle of abuse: Stop finding partners alone, get help from healthy older people, set boundaries, and NEVER deviate. Peaceful women find peaceful men, and the reverse

Testing a man if you have issues is EXTREMELY dangerous and will KILL polarity. Bad men who will survive your "test" will see through your test, have bad motives, and laugh about it to secure a goal. A good man who somehow "passes" will lose confidence, and your attraction.https://twitter.com/GwendolynKansen/status/1224419838875119621 …

Next time I hear “men only want sluts” or other such comments I’ll refer to this poll. Only 1/3rd of men wanted non-monogamy, and this woman’s account does NOT promote traditional morality. She laughs at the idea of chaste courtship, and even her followers want monogamyhttps://twitter.com/faily_/status/1224266039162277888 …

interesting.https://twitter.com/BradCLemley/status/1224533770436431872 …

Find someone who loves you FOR the burdens you've born, and who is WORTH helping accomplish his mission in life... If you find this, your prior children will not matter. This may be hard, but ALL relationships are hard work to find. At least good ones.

What do we do when a woman's need (protection/provision) conflicts with a man's need (a spouse willing/able to carry his family line forward)? Resolving this conflict is a very difficult question and must be answered on a personal and case-by-case basis.

But should men feel a natural need to insure their future mate will be totally dedicated to them, and the creation of their own children? Yes, they should, they're men. The purpose of a man is to build a world and father children who can sustain his legacy and name.

It greatly hurts women to hear that many men might overlook them as potential wives worthy of protection/provision. This is entirely understandable. Who wants to be overlooked due to a prior relationship?

Many women will gladly provide children for a new husband. But many women will not, or will even lie about their desire to, carry additional children. Yet, those women still feel a natural need and desire for protection and provision. They should, they're women.

Why are single fathers not judged so harshly? Because a single Dad with good employment can still, without question, protect and provide for a woman. He fulfills his mission Will a single mother still, without question, provide a fertile mate for a father? Sometimes.

Been watching the anger over @thisisfoster 's tweets on being "watchful" or "careful" when marrying a single mother. Why are so many people hurt? He cut close to what women NEED (protection/provision), while indirectly highlighting what men also NEED (a fertile mate).

If a woman asked me "wow, your ex wife was a 10/10 in her 20s, and highly educated, so why did she leave you?" I'd wince, tell her that's a valid question, and answer. You MUST know why a woman is a single mom, a man was left... anything else is irresponsible and dangerous.https://twitter.com/limitlessleila/status/1224506087761686529 …

Vital, but long, thread. Overreaction to a wife’s worry can destroy polarity. But also don’t leave her in the dark as to why she’s receiving a muted reaction to her exclamations. Ideally a wife entiely trusts her man’s skill, but that takes time in our feminist world.https://twitter.com/bradclemley/status/1224430667871580161 …