Just like every convention I've ever been to, now that I'm actually *at* #NFC2018, I'm very much having an "okay, now what" moment.
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It's a huge assist when someone else insists on breaking the ice, rather than me having to break the ice. A fur from Uppsala at the con wanted to meet me, so we did. We went together to the nearby liquor store, and went back to the con, having great conversation the whole time.
It's not an issue of having things to talk about - the other person can think of things to talk about, too - and it's not a matter of being interesting. It's just a matter of getting over that initial "Hey, how y'doing?" barrier.
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That's what I was trying to say yesterday. Keep it simple, be friendly, ask a few unimportant questions get a back and forth going let it grow from that. As I'm a bit of a socially awkward penguin, it's how I deal with new people in social settings.
Kiitos. Käytämme tätä aikajanasi parantamiseen. KumoaKumoa
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If someone doesn't want to talk to you it'll be obvious after just the initial "Hi" and simple friendly question, they won't answer, or semm uninterestd. In that case you can just say "enjoy the con!" and walk/turn away without have put yourself out there too far.
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You're 100% on the money. It's one of those things where it's not tough once you start doing it, it's just tough to start.
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Something else to remember is that you are not the only one who feels like that. Lots of people have issues in social situations and most of the people you say hi to will be relieved that someone else started the conversation.
Kiitos. Käytämme tätä aikajanasi parantamiseen. KumoaKumoa
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