Er... was it a surprise that Musk has aspergers? Y'all need to work with more aspies, get to know them better - they're great. Hug an aspie today! Wait no maybe don't do that actually.
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All those things you mentioned are attributes he cannot change. Whether people like him or hate him, I hope they do it for things he actually did.
I hate rather few people, and Musk is not one of those people. What I hope is that he'll use the diagnosis as a roadmap of things to work on, as well as already-positive traits that can be bolstered.