It seems @DadSchool touched on this already, but I see an alarming number of self-Dx'd people using it as a way to go "Oh, I'm autistic, so I'm ALLOWED to be an asshole." No you're not. It's an explanation for bad behavior but never an excuse.
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Sorry! I wasn't sure if you were being sarcastic or not. I went into a detailed explanation a while ago as to how I find it difficult via text to tell when someone is being snarky and when they are not.
As the remainder of your comment focused (quite rightly) on the people who gatekeep via the arbitrary attribute of self-Dx, I thought it may have been directed at me. I apologize once again.