If you’re geared 100% toward earning approval from others out of constant fear of abandonment then sex becomes a performance based on fear of doing it wrong and the other person abandoning you. Orgasm can be almost impossible under those conditions.
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Most women who have to see their ex get dressed to the nines to show him what he's missing. Then she wonders why he's always trying to crawl back into her life. Don't do this. Dress like a slob. Forget bathing for a day or two. Disgust him. Watch him avoid you like the plague.
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You are better than your worst mistake that you still measure yourself by. The fact that you're still bothered by it proves you're better than you were then.
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You control exactly one half of every relationship. The best thing you can do at the start is make sure both sides operate in good faith. Good faith can help you overcome any problem together. Learn how to differentiate between good and bad faith actors for next time.
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