Some people actually believe you must have sex with someone before you marry them to make sure it's good sex. As if sexual behavior is innate and not cultivated through deep communication and sharing of needs. These people want physical intimacy without emotional intimacy.
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It's okay to have days where you're not productive. Healing days are incredibly valuable. Enjoying the life you've built encourages you to work hard later. The problem comes when you tell yourself you need a year of healing days in a row. Find a realistic balance point.
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Most people try to heal burnout by taking a vacation. But they come back just as miserable as when they left, if not MORE miserable. Research shows that overusing one part of the brain causes burnout. Stimulating a different part is often what heals you. Give it a try.
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Most people aren't ready for their dreams to come true.
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If you're constantly run into the ground by dramatic people who control your life, They can't control you unless you allow it. You're the one giving them the power. What are you getting in return? What are you willing to give up to take back that control?
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Most people who grow up in broken family systems don't realize their family is unusual. They adopt horrible behaviors that help them survive the broken system. Then they go out into the world and seek out people who match their behaviors. Then they build a second broken family.
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Most women who have to see their ex get dressed to the nines to show him what he's missing. Then she wonders why he's always trying to crawl back into her life. Don't do this. Dress like a slob. Forget bathing for a day or two. Disgust him. Watch him avoid you like the plague.
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You are better than your worst mistake that you still measure yourself by. The fact that you're still bothered by it proves you're better than you were then.
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You control exactly one half of every relationship. The best thing you can do at the start is make sure both sides operate in good faith. Good faith can help you overcome any problem together. Learn how to differentiate between good and bad faith actors for next time.
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That was an eye opener for me: There’s a difference between responsible to, and responsible for.
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