Most couples say they value communication but then run their relationship as if ever mentioning the problems under the surface will destroy the whole thing. "We're only together because we don't mention what's wrong! We can never discuss it!" Imagine running a business this way
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The best couples have business meetings to discuss the state of their relationship. They address problems together with a solution-focused approach and guarantee mutual fulfillment. Because a lasting marriage is more like a business than a fairytale.
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A husband and wife with attachment issues can usually survive until they have kids. Then the wife sees the kids struggling without a healthy bond to their father and begins treating him like a threat to "her kids". He usually has no idea why she's slowly turning on him.
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A damaged man is incapable of love because he does not believe love will be freely given, only earned through works. He seeks false intimacy in lust and mistakes sex for acceptance. These men seek insecure women who believe themselves unlovable and who use sex to earn approval.
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Most young women who experience rape only recover when they accept that the rape was actually nothing personal, because the attacker was incapable of loving attachment and did not view them or anyone else as a human and only as an object. Most are shocked, then relieved.
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Most women are disgusted when they finally learn how the male sex drive works. Then they test to see if it's true, and when it is, they start to like the new power they hold.
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Women are insecure about details. Men don't notice details. Men notice body parts No man ever said, "Hey, one of her nipples is slightly larger than the other" But every woman knows which of her nipples is larger than the other and is terrified her partner will leave her for it
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Most women spend their time worrying about the man they love noticing imperfections that only another woman would ever notice. Few women realize that you cover imperfections by distracting men with accentuated body parts. Flaunt what you've got. He won't care about the rest.
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Too many people reading this thread have no idea what "attachment" means It's the most important thing in a human life, but our society has downplayed it so hard that we don't even teach it anymore Ancient societies made it their main focus because attachment is life itself
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