The modern push to make insecure people “love yourself first” is pushed by people who give up on any chance of being loved by others. Loving yourself first becomes a fallback to those who’ve surrendered to self-loathing. People need to feel loved first to see their own worth.
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If you’re curious, here’s one of my books on the topic: Slaying Your Fear: A guide for people who grapple with insecurity https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07S33YGJZ/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_zjo5EbJFDJBSM …
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That makes sense. You are saying that going that route is much harder. It's much better when someone is there loving you and you are able to let that love in you.
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I’d say for most that route is nearly impossible and defeats the purpose anyway since it often births vain people incapable of humility and giving genuine love. But there are always outliers.
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