The modern push to make insecure people “love yourself first” is pushed by people who give up on any chance of being loved by others. Loving yourself first becomes a fallback to those who’ve surrendered to self-loathing. People need to feel loved first to see their own worth.
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The truth is that good people are actually all around and friendships can be simple to establish, but insecure people actively drive healthy people away and flee from those relationships because they’re certain they’ll be abandoned sooner or later for not being worth the time.
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Once a person learns what real relationships should look like and gets a working idea of boundaries they can find at least one friend anywhere. I usually recommend attending a class or group based on a shared hobby or religion so you instantly have something in common to discuss.
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