Most men have absolutely no idea how to talk to their wife. Their wife says, “Talk to me!” and he answers, “What am I supposed to say?” Women develop emotional intimacy through talking. Men don’t know how to do this. Here’s a thread on communicating intimately with your wife:
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Women tend to be happiest when they feel USEFUL to the people they love. They also want to feel TRUSTED with inside information about how you’re doing and what your challenges are, again so they can HELP and BE USEFUL. VULNERABILITY indicates huge trust. What is vulnerability?
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VULNERABILITY is revealing your weak areas. This terrifies men because we hate weakness, as it lowers our value and social status and exposes us to potential wounding. Women crave to see weakness so they can be useful by helping their partner grow and shield his weak points.
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The danger here is to be perceived as complaining. When a woman hears a man complain they just hear, “I’m weak.”
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