A major problem for couples is the man being solution-focused while the woman wants to process her feelings and bond through sharing. Men should ask, “I really want to hear this, but just so I know, do you want me to fix it or just listen?” 9 times out of 10: “Just listen.”
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Replying to @TheBrometheus
Groundbreaking when I understood this for the first time, which I’ll sheepishly admit was only recently. I was always ready to try to fix everything and wondered why that never seemed to be a good thing
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Replying to @chris_decicco
It’s mind-blowing for both sexes to learn how the other’s brain works.
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Replying to @TheBrometheus
Almost as if we are just different, and our differences are innate and not a social construct
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