Marriage Tip: Transparency can be really stupid. If you have screwed up, get help, fix it, and move on. No need to destroy your entire family for sake of "coming clean". Tell your priest, talk to Gd, but spare your loved ones.
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Your experience, through your work, is certainly deeper than mine. I do prefer full honesty at all times.
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Actually, I agree with you. I’m generalizing to the original argument. Marriage counselors I work around frequently support hiding things for the sake of Spring a partner. As if hiding these secret things somehow will never ever impact intimacy or love in any way.
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If your goal is just to stay married regardless of intimacy, sure. If your goal is just to maximize pleasure and minimize pain, sure. But this approach is most definitely the opposite of Christian because it lacks faith, distorts the goal of marriage, and is buried in fear.
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Better just to stay true to your partner, your vows, and the future of your family. I'll never understand people who risk all of this for a fling.
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Which for me goes back to what Ophelia said about having the opportunity for give. I can’t display the unconditional love of Christ & practice forgiveness if my partner keeps their sin hidden. I also believe all sin comes to light & manifests to the surface at some point.pic.twitter.com/t7qE91yoUh
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*the opportunity to forgive
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How will you ever be loved, get your needs met, and live a problem free life if you let others know the truth about yourself?!
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You slay me, sir.

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Great perspective.
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