Many men who set out to improve themselves and their marriage get discouraged when their wife doesn’t validate them, or even becomes more vicious. This is trial by fire. She wants to see if you’re faking. She wants you to fail and explode at a safe distance. Endure and prove.
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Replying to @SuzannaAloni
No. If the man is weak and fake and posturing to gain approval and she’s endured this for 15 years and sees their kids suffering, and he promises to change for the twentieth time, she tests to see if he’s weak, because she wants him to fail before she trusts him, not after.
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Replying to @TheBrometheus @SuzannaAloni
It’s not a desire for the failure. It’s a belief he’s going to fail anyway coupled with a despair and lack of hope that he’s authentically going to try.
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Replying to @TheBrometheus @SuzannaAloni
“Fail when I still don’t trust you, not when I’ve decided to try again and can’t afford the disappointment and pain.”
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Replying to @TheBrometheus @SuzannaAloni
You see this in situations where trust has been repeatedly broken. It isn't that she wants failure. She just doesn't want to get her hopes up again only to be disappointed.
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