Many men who set out to improve themselves and their marriage get discouraged when their wife doesn’t validate them, or even becomes more vicious. This is trial by fire. She wants to see if you’re faking. She wants you to fail and explode at a safe distance. Endure and prove.
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You see this in situations where trust has been repeatedly broken. It isn't that she wants failure. She just doesn't want to get her hopes up again only to be disappointed.
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Precisely.
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It makes total sense.....
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The only point I would add....if she has also been mean and nasty etc....put her on watch as well. If she's not going to participate and change her behavior, then get out. Have your own standards and boundaries. Betas don't do this very well.
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