Many men who set out to improve themselves and their marriage get discouraged when their wife doesn’t validate them, or even becomes more vicious. This is trial by fire. She wants to see if you’re faking. She wants you to fail and explode at a safe distance. Endure and prove.
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And finally... Men who actually change do so for themselves and their overall families regardless of what anyone thinks. Validation and reward isn’t the goal because the change is its own reward. You prove this with confidence and conviction about the change itself.
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Change regardless of the tests, endure with confidence, and you’ll likely win her heart. TRY to win her heart by changing and you’re guaranteed to scare her off because she knows you’re fake. Not every relationship can be saved, each partner makes a choice, but this is the path.
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