If a man is pestering you to validate his wants because he did what you asked, why would you believe he’s truly changed for the sake of being a better man? If he’s whining about not being rewarded, how can you trust he actually understands why he needs to be better?
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And finally... Men who actually change do so for themselves and their overall families regardless of what anyone thinks. Validation and reward isn’t the goal because the change is its own reward. You prove this with confidence and conviction about the change itself.
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Change regardless of the tests, endure with confidence, and you’ll likely win her heart. TRY to win her heart by changing and you’re guaranteed to scare her off because she knows you’re fake. Not every relationship can be saved, each partner makes a choice, but this is the path.
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She could also be a harpy
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No. If the man is weak and fake and posturing to gain approval and she’s endured this for 15 years and sees their kids suffering, and he promises to change for the twentieth time, she tests to see if he’s weak, because she wants him to fail before she trusts him, not after.
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Females can bail out anytime and conjure up reasons to redeem them of any guilt.
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