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Replying to @itsmedevclev
And crippling insecurity and attachment issues make it far more difficult to ever achieve any.
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Replying to @TheBrometheus
Insecurity makes total sense, could you elaborate on attatchment issues? I’m curious
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Replying to @itsmedevclev
Wrote a book on it. Happens to be my professional specialty. Blasting it all out is gonna take a massive thread.
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Replying to @TheBrometheus
In short: If you’re geared 100% toward earning approval from others out of constant fear of abandonment then sex becomes a performance based on fear of doing it wrong and the other person abandoning you. Orgasm can be almost impossible under those conditions.
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Replying to @TheBrometheus
Female arousal is based more on emotional intimacy and perceived security, which attachment utterly undermines. And if the sex is a performance there’s no focus on her own body, it’s on maximizing approval earned by boosting her partner’s pleasure.
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Replying to @TheBrometheus
So women shackled by the belief they’re innately unlovable and have to earn approval by being perfect are gonna have a pretty terrible time ever achieved orgasm because they just don’t care. And frankly, losing control is frightening and embarrassing, what if they orgasm wrong?
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Replying to @TheBrometheus
As I said, I wrote the book on fixing it.
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07S33YGJZ/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_zgkIDbVVXG5C3 …2 replies 0 retweets 7 likes -
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Unfortunately it’s only available on Amazon. The Kindle app is free. It’s also available in paperback and in audiobook, whichever works best for you.
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