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Replying to @itsmedevclev
And crippling insecurity and attachment issues make it far more difficult to ever achieve any.
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Replying to @TheBrometheus
Insecurity makes total sense, could you elaborate on attatchment issues? I’m curious
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Replying to @itsmedevclev
Wrote a book on it. Happens to be my professional specialty. Blasting it all out is gonna take a massive thread.
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Replying to @TheBrometheus
In short: If you’re geared 100% toward earning approval from others out of constant fear of abandonment then sex becomes a performance based on fear of doing it wrong and the other person abandoning you. Orgasm can be almost impossible under those conditions.
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Replying to @TheBrometheus
Female arousal is based more on emotional intimacy and perceived security, which attachment utterly undermines. And if the sex is a performance there’s no focus on her own body, it’s on maximizing approval earned by boosting her partner’s pleasure.
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Replying to @TheBrometheus
Puts "performance anxiety" in a new light for me. This thread is gold, and solidifies some things I've been churning in my head for a while. I may well check out your book, too. You the man!
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Glad to hear it! The book walks through a detailed guide in fixing this issue in men and women.
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