If it was me, I’d approach and mention exactly that concern, flat out. Say I just wanted to put her at ease so she knows I’m not a weirdo. Keep the convo short and go back to life. Shows confidence. A real weirdo might start that conversation but use it as an excuse to chat more.
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They say no, or they say yes and it’s done, I wave and walk off. I don’t stay for conversation, don’t stay for follow up help unless they call me back. Don’t make too many expressions of act too charming, just nod and say “You’re welcome” and walk off. Sets most at ease.
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It just got to be that I’d passed up too many chances to do good and found myself neutralized in the world. I wasn’t doing bad or good. What was my life? So I started doing good in a way that put them at ease and could be easily pushed back if not welcome.
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Kindness requires greater courage now. But that also increases the value of each kindness and the urgency to perform it. You can choose to be suppressed and do no good, or you can choose to push through and find the strength. It’s a choice, plus some social skills to navigate it.
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