If I were a single young man seeking a wife, I’d get deeply involved in my local church and then announce my search for a wife to the old ladies who run the various programs. Guaranteed they know who else is looking and who to avoid.
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Caveat: be careful which type of old ladies you get involved with. Some of them are venerable. Some are full of gossip and manipulation. (Am I too cynical? But seriously, old ladies are a doble edged sword to my knowledge)
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Let's try to avoid feminist language like "power". Traditional men don't want to be tied to bossy women. A better phrasing would be: Older women have closely knit communities of women. And they are submissive to husbands and are good help-meet.
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Otherwise, this near-matriarchal dynamic that you are unintentionally championing is something that men *detest* - please understand the legitimate complaints of men. It's against the natural order, biologically (on a core level for both genders) and scripturally too and it makes
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Remember that they'll ask you what kinda job you have first. It better be good. They're assessing you.
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The “real power” you speak of in a community is in the strength of the family unit, not in one small sect of people, male or female. It is the entire group working together. Like a sports team. They all have to work together and even one shining star can’t win the championship.
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couldn't agree more, I've seen some great pairings come from church. That said, there are some very "spiritual" types that can be very entitled and have the belief that God will give them whatever they want without lifting a finger. Highly recommend to steer clear of these.
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