Men and women should be having firm discussions about life goals, children, marriage, division of labor, religion, and life mission on the very first date. Drives away the time wasters and makes the goal-driven partners obsess over you. Stop wasting time. Stop being timid.
So you should... marry anyway? Or beat around the bush? I’m unclear what you’re intending.
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Certainly marriage should be the goal. I just don't think that it's realistic to cram all of those different subjects into one outing. Unless you define the idea of "date" to be a process instead of a discrete event. Then it should actually be a courtship instead.
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Courtship is precisely my meaning. You nailed it.
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There is also the need to temper the hormone-driven impulse to speed things up - which has the tendency for intended partners to be overly agreeable with each other on the outset. And there should be periods of separation where each person can think without distraction.
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