They’re usually running damage control. They don’t believe they’re worth anything so by doing them a favor you risk realizing how worthless they are and how little you receive back from them in the relationship. They’re frantically trying to stave off resentment and abandonment.https://twitter.com/DStanTheMc/status/1109804308755869696 …
Yes indeed. If only a handsome rogue had written a book on how to heal that...