Invest in people, not outcomes. If someone behaves inappropriately, don’t get angry. Explain it to them. Either they take the lesson and your relationship gets better or they get mad and leave but carry the lesson with them. Don’t prioritize staying together forever.
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Invest in people, not outcomes. Having a general plan for guiding your children is good. Micromanaging their decisions so they never grow beyond your control is smothering and will lead to either a weak adult or resentful estrangement. Educate your children for their own path.
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If you’re angry about outcomes, you’re not investing in people. You’re investing in your own vision for how other people should act. This is a fool’s proposition and leads to endless frustration. Invest in people. Adapt to outcomes by reinvesting in new ways to reach success.
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This thread has been stewing in my mind for some time but reached fruition as I read
@IvanThrone’s book yesterday. Investing in people, not outcomes was easy. Turning failure around as a chance to reinvest with greater education was eye-opening. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01LZ2FEGOShow this thread
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