I hear all the time “people don’t do that. It’s too weird.” No people do this. Healthy people who value openness and honesty do this. And it’s not weird. What’s weird is dating someone for 3 years and still not being confident that you suit each other. You both just lost 3 years
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Date for ten years, have two babies and six pets, still can’t commit. But sure, moving forward from day one expecting marriage is weird.
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THIS. My wife & I spent our first "dates" going through a document (a literal outline) of all of the things that were important to us in life, to make sure that we were compatible. As in, committed for LIFE compatible. 7 unbelievably happy years in August! Right
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I love this. It reminds me of my grandparents relationships. One set was engaged/married? 2 months after meeting. Another set was married after 2 weeks. No divorce. Grandmothers are both widowers who never remarried. My parents dated 6mo, got engaged, 6mo later married.
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This is healthy and has been the human custom for all of recorded history.
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If it’s not too personal, how did you two meet?
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Beautiful and inspiring.
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I imagine this is how it would have gone for @DaFizzySquirrel and I if we didn't meet in high school so we ended up courting for a while before marrying. Although I have to say, if he asked me to marry him 2 weeks after we met... I probably would have said yes!
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