So .. the "Commons Clause" that Redis & Neo4J adopted is the brainchild of http://Fossa.io , an SF consultancy that supposedly helps people with license compliance. If you or your company has hired Fossa for compliance advice, they are misleading you. Fire them.
They're listed on the Linux Foundation guide https://www.linuxfoundation.org/resources/open-source-guides/tools-managing-open-source-programs/ …. You should write to @cra if they're doing something really awful