My grudge: Harming people by changing public perceptions, and making live human beings "worthy" of being harmed. It is not just. It is not cool. No matter who does it to whom, it is rotten.
And I swear, when the darkness falls, and embarrassing questions finally receive honest answers in broad daylight, we will all laugh together. It's not about fear, and not about shame. It really is about love. (I know it's awfully cheesy but it's true!!)