, White, Bi, He/Him • I make board games, card games, and game words • Radically Inclusive Open Mentorship •
So hey, guys. Yes, guys. I am speaking to guys. This is a gender specific thing.
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When someone comes to you with something they're trying, something they've made, consider *why* they're showing you, what *for*.
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In nerd communities especially, technical jobs etc, there's this habit of looking at a thing and trying to find The Flaw to point out.
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Thing is, if someone comes to you with their creative work, with their interests, with their efforts, *maybe* they're not looking for that?
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it is a really, really hard habit to break. Magic players are really bad for it, too: We hear a bad beat story and make fun of the loser.
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RPG fans insist on using a game story as a chance to make fun of a setting or a game edition or a particular balance choice
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The world around you is better, people trust you more, you *hurt people less* if you consider whether This Is The Time To Be A Dick more.
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I'm at a point where when I am *genuinely very upset* I realise that most people just... don't... know? don't realise at all?
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Which has been super useful in seeing people give Very Unhelpful Responses to problems. And you don't need to do that.
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