i increasingly suspect the venn diagram of "incels" and "weird dudes on the street who feel so entitled to your time they lose their shit and start screaming obscenities at you if you politely decline to engage" is just a circle
From what you're saying it sounds like an "incel" is the type of person who would blame their unfuckability on someone else. The kind of person who would never take responsibility for their own actions, much less their own failings. Who'd want to be around that? Other "incels"?