Guy in a fedora at the end of the bar: Feminism created a world that benefits the biological patriarchy. Woman sitting next to him: *scoots further away*
Hookup culture favours the small percentage of the most attractive males at the expense of everyone else. Women like chasing the alphas until the women hit their 30s, when they get traded in for younger women. Feminism created a world that benefits the biological patriarchy.
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Why would you want to insult women by saying that they are scared of ideas?
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To some degree I agree; young women will try to level up in their 20s. But it's not like they have all the men splayed before them to chose from. Perhaps bigger problem is the faux pair-bonding that occurs from casual sex via sexual liberation making it harder to bond later.
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Your comment about "faux pair-bonding" is spot on, tectonic plates shifting beneath the surface. It's right there in the phrase "pair-bond." A bond. Deeply imbedded in our psychobiology. Every time we bond, then break it, again and again, something permanent and valuable is lost.
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Absolutely. This is a big danger. There is of course the hormonal response and we can find mechanism for this. But the manifestation is clear. Interesting to see that through observing the manifestations alone, we traditionally had a set of boundaries regarding such behaviors.
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For me this is the real story underneath the cultural malaise. Talk to anyone in the dating scene, particularly on apps, they all seem to have the same complaint. No one is taking it seriously, and no one will "step up." Like a book of matches, once lit, never to be lit again.
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I think this leads to a deep cynicism about the most fundamental aspect of our existence - to be securely attached, to trust, to bond. It's no wonder every civilization has built powerful rituals around this.
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I think it can be lit again, but it takes more time to build the trust. There is no love like young love because you jump in with no issues ("what can go wrong?"). When older, when burned before, it takes longer to get into the water. Lots more testing that it is safe first.
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Good, in my matchbook metaphor that would mean there are still some matches left. And maybe an awareness that the matches are dwindling causes people to take it more seriously. I do think there are some people who have used all their matches and lost the capacity to truly bond.
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Now that you point it out, I can definitely see it. I grew up in that world but jumped out when I became a Christian at 20. Smartest move of my life, for sure. Waited for a good man to marry & now in our late 40's +kids. Stable, happy family... many blessings, few complaints!
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I suspect that those that get triggered to some level realise that he is he is right and they do not like that. It is like a smoker that know that smoking is bad but avoid discussions about.
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It’s the new polyandry normhttps://therationalmale.com/2018/12/10/the-new-polyandry/ …
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Those who spend too much time looking for “perfection” will find their options limited to poor quality. This is because those who are willing to overlook shallow imperfections are taking all the best opportunities off the table.
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Simply put: Do not wait for prince charming unless you are princess charming.
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Close, but more like: just be reasonable.
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We get it, she said it was small.
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