Y’all are being played so hard, and don’t even see it
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People are so funny. “Get educated, start your career, then take time off to have babies if you want them” = APPROVED FEMINISM! “If you want babies, have them first, so you don’t end up interrupting your career - plus you have more energy, and are more fertile” = WOMAN HATING!
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Sis in law took 1 week off after each kid and then kept working to avoid loosing her job, i.e. the specific role she had. Women can do what they want if they are smart. 4 kids before 40. It is not an all or nothing game
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Oh that is so sad
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Ladies, do what you want, when you want, and enjoy your life. Men, same. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions and the right to live their lives the way they want. :) Peace, all.
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And recognize that decisions have consequences. If a woman (or man) knows going in what those consequences are, than I agree. But society has been telling women (falsely) they can have their cake and eat it too. That’s the lie that needs to be addressed.
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Right, because entering the job market in your 30s with no experience is so easy.
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Easier than trying to have kids in your late 30s. And doesn't have to be in your 30s anyway....mid to late 20s doable..careers are horrible anyway and we are moving to more work at home lifestlyes
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I did both. I had 2 kids when I was young & two more after my career was established. The first pair was physically easier but financially far more difficult. The second set was vice versa. Women should have babies whenever they’re ready because there are pros & cons regardless.
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Best answer. My wife had her first child when she was 23 and second when she was 35.
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This is my favorite twitter account of a man explaining to women how they should live their lives.
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Isn't it odd that staying home, having kids and being the matriarch of a family dynasty became denigrated at the same time Feminism grew into a political force?
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I think women are pretty tired of being told what they should and shouldn't do by men... I know plenty of women in my field who have had kids at a young age and later in life. Equally successful in their careers... Give it a rest mate.
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My wife and I can’t now have children because she focused on her career first. She waited too long. It has been devastating to us both. These things have consequences for people, so you can shove your anecdotal evidence. This conversation needs to happen.
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I'm sorry you and your wife have had to go through that. I should add that for some of us this isn't a choice. I have had to put off kids until financially able. I'm the main earner. Which necessitates establishing my career and the opportunity for paid maternity leave first.
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Thank you. Circumstances as you describe are, of course, relevant. But there is an ideal age range for women. If women (and men) were making informed decisions, there’d be little issue. Unfortunately, we fell victim to a feminist narrative that she “has time.” Its destructive.
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It really is astonishing.
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