Stefan MolyneuxVerified account

Waiting for the right person doesn’t have a timelimit. I should have been MORE picky in my 20’s.

I feel ya. If I would have married my ex-fiancé, I would be a de facto single mother waiting for his band to “make it.”

I found the right guy in my late 20’s and got married at 30. I have zero regrets. At 34, knowing my “biological clock” is ticking, I’d do it all over again. Being with the right partner is so much more important than being with a decent guy earlier on.

I completely agree. I don’t wanna hear about any of these men complaining about broken homes, spousal abuse, money problems, etc., if people are entering lifelong commitments without any awareness. I’m 34, too. According to him, we are 340.

If you’re single, in your 30’s..... Enjoy being a step parent. Just sayin.

“YOU’RE NOT MY REAL MOM!”

Hey Stefan, my 38 year old girlfriend is begging me to have a baby with her. She's having mad baby blues and I'm so tempted to just do it. What say you?

38 years old, and still only a girlfriend?

2 years girlfriend. She's just absolutely over the moon for me but me not so much. She says she could get by without me but... its a hard decision. Make an aging woman happy or play it safe?

True! I am so happy that I married in my 20's. Who wants (as a woman) the divorced guy at 36 with 2-3 kids? or even worse the never married at 36 guy? NO THANKS!

I was happy also that I married then, but it didn't turn out well in the end. Now in forties. My goodness. I don't know that I even want to LOOK anymore, because a man would have kids of his own to deal with. Or if hasn't had kids, I would be years ahead of him, developmentally.

Mate, she’s never letting you get weekend access, just give up.

You act as if 1) the man doesn't have any influence on this decision and 2) as if any guy is as good as the next. Finding someone who will stay around & help raise a family, rather than a deadbeat who will take off with the next piece of eye candy is kind of important, ya know?