Stefan MolyneuxVerified account

Loving all these comments disagreeing with Stef from people with no children and whine about “how hard it is now.” Peak millennial!

When you join the military

Bingo.....

At the age of “the absorbent mind,” it is the role of parents to provide a safe, healthy environment for their children. Dumping them in a group of strangers, whom you know nothing about, is exposing them to the mental and emotional realities of those strangers. PARENT, or don’t!

Socializing can be done by parents meeting with other parents, and letting the kids interact. This way, a parent is able to instruct when behavior goes awry, not a stranger who may not share your values. It's cheaper than daycare, too.

.Conscription to the armed forces does it to you like here in Sweden. Not always an enjoyable experience but character building according to some

On a larger timescale, it's recent that we had this "luxury" of daycare. For 100,000 years the baby was for the most part, with its mother. There are these superficial things the baby sense with its parent(s). This naturally may have an effect on the baby. Genes recognise genes.

yes I learn how to hit each other over the head for a toy and they learn that having some kind of runny nose or cough is just a part of life

Let’s compare grade school kids that attended daycare (obviously vetted responsible daycares, not a pedo in a dumpster) versus grace school kids that transition from home to school. Huge difference in social interaction and learning ability.

Completely different things. Children of daycare age are way less socially self-conscious than adults. An adult in that situation would be anxious. A baby just doesn't have that level of awareness. They get used to it pretty quickly.

Quick test that scares me and speaks for itself, draw a pie chart and fill it with slices of time your child spends his/her time doing, School..childminder..etc and time spent with you. take out sleep and an afternoon at Nan's house and your childs a stranger. whats life about.

I prefer friends & family.

What kind of argument is this? You honestly don’t think kids need any kind of socialization with kids their own age? That explains why you have no sense of how to interact appropriately