A good follow-up is "is what I want achievable?" because if it isn't, you now have a concrete problem you can unpack and don't have to let a stranger fish your psyche for it.
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That's good news in the sense that it's typically better than feeling totally lost and not knowing what's wrong. But once you know what you want and have set achievable goals, you're set to just... do it. You can just go and do it. You might have to plan, but at least you can.
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At least in my own gender process, everything became much more satisfying when I focused on what I wanted and checking that it was achievable/realistic more than how many boxes I did or didn't check off in the DSM or a Tumblr post or a trans memoire.
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This is why my personal transition narrative is "actually biohacking is really cool?" and the feeling of being "trapped" very definitely came from external expectations to not claim my body for myself. My body is mine, nor am I trapped in it.
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My only hard and fast prescriptive advice is "never ever consult beauty/health magazines." Those images are edited. Not even the models can attain them. Don't send yourself into a spiral.
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Literally everything else *frustrating Jedi Master handwave* is up to you to decide, young padawan
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If only I had this advice when I was 12

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yeah we're not encouraged to meaningfully ask it in this context, are we
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This is definitely a tweet my cis past self wouldn't be happy to look at. He didn't like to have to think about it
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Oh I absolutely have some anguished ego-protective retweets. It's fine. It's their process, not mine.
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