Scott Madin on Twitter: "but what if I heard somewhere that a kink that exists is exhibitionism and elsewhere I heard "don't involve people in your kink scene without consent" and I don't understand context so I assume all kinksters are exhibitionists and by wearing harnesses they are Doing Sex At Me… https://t.co/TVwHSavqkv"

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A lot of ace people are kinky and a lot of sex-repulsed people aren't ace; it would be nice if people could stop saying "but ace people!" regarding the Kink At Pride discourse. (& non-aces invoking us don't care whether we feel welcome when the gatekeepers say we aren't queer.)

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Ana Mardoll‏ @AnaMardoll May 24

If you haven't stood up for us when major queer twitter accounts called us predators for *existing*, and swore up and down that we aren't capital-Q Queer, then you don't get to invoke us against kinksters. Ace people aren't your Magic The Gathering attack card.

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Ana Mardoll‏ @AnaMardoll May 24

I'm tired of non-ace people ignoring us for 11 months out of the year and then suddenly calling on us frantically during Pride to justify excluding our kinky ace siblings.

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Ana Mardoll‏ @AnaMardoll May 24

[TW: Rape] Know what makes ME feel unwelcome at Pride? Knowing that if I show up in my black and purple colors, I'll be screamed at by some exclusionary aphobe about "corrective rape" (which I've experienced, so THANKS for the trigger!) and 95% of allos will avert their eyes.

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Ana Mardoll‏ @AnaMardoll May 25

Ana Mardoll Retweeted Nico

Yes. This happened, and almost everyone in the community shrugged and didn't care. But now they care about our safety? Disbelief.https://twitter.com/unicornthorn/status/1397288405168316416 …

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Nico @unicornthorn

Replying to @unicornthorn @mollydot and 2 others

One of ppl's fav queer accounts went on this tirade earlier this year, then said us being upset about being framed as predators & blocking them meant we were unsafe & that calling them out on continuing to write dozens of acephobic tweets was a violation of their boundaries

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Ana Mardoll‏ @AnaMardoll May 25

Ana Mardoll Retweeted Nico

Here's a thread about what went down this year, and y'all allos should care.https://twitter.com/unicornthorn/status/1359599368697909248 …

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Nico @unicornthorn

It's actually really disheartening to see a popular sj twitter: - spout anti-ace bs - claim it's exploitative for ace people to have consensual sex w/ their partners - insinuate aces don't know what asexuality is(!) And then have non-aces apologize to THEM for aces being upset!

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Ana Mardoll‏ @AnaMardoll May 25

...ok, I've had to type this to a lot of people today, so just a general note: You do not get to "consent" to what people WEAR on their own BODIES.

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Ana Mardoll‏ @AnaMardoll May 25

If you did have that power, then you would be able to demand someone strip naked or force them to remove themselves entirely from all society. We don't grant that power to people because we care about Bodily Autonomy: the right to self-govern our bodies.

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Ana Mardoll‏ @AnaMardoll May 25

"But the clothing is sexual and therefore my consent is needed." Clothing is not sex. Some people find some clothing arousing, but that doesn't mean that all socks, pantyhose, gloves, corsets, skirts, crop tops, or ANYTHING ELSE are now Sex In Public.

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a medium, but for alive people‏ @femmina May 25

Replying to @AnaMardoll

I genuinely do not know how many times in the last week I have said "an outfit is not a sex act"

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Scott Madin‏ @ScottMadin May 25

Replying to @femmina @AnaMardoll

but what if I heard somewhere that a kink that exists is exhibitionism and elsewhere I heard "don't involve people in your kink scene without consent" and I don't understand context so I assume all kinksters are exhibitionists and by wearing harnesses they are Doing Sex At Me

3:58 PM - 25 May 2021