Every single man I've ever liked in my life had a completely different "type" than I am, and I keep thinking about this.
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I don't think I've met many people whose type I was. I'm always around men fantasising about more petite, more curly, more rich, more quiet, more something, and I haven't the faintest idea how to react. (I think what they mean is *less X*.)
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I feel this. I’ve reflected on something similar A TON in the last year. The shared trait of men I’ve liked seems to be emotional avoidance—they’ll always find a reason why the woman they *really* want is more/less X than me. But now I get that they’ll do that with anyone.
So now I’m, like, actively trying to change the type of men I’m attracted to and it’s weird, but gradually kind of working. 🤷🏼♀️